Home About The Defy Tomorrow Approach Courses Find a Cohort Store Contact
Header Logo
LOGIN
← Back to all posts

Getting What You Deserve

by Scott Fasano
Oct 13, 2024
Connect

Today, I realized something powerful. Standing there by the water, hand in hand with Ang, a weight lifted that I didn’t even know I’d been carrying. This moment, this entire day, was about stepping into what I deserve, not because of some tally of what I’ve done, but because of who I am.

For too long, I, like so many of us, felt the shadow of “getting what you deserve.” It echoed in the background, a threat more than a promise. But today, I stood in the light of a new understanding. Deserve isn’t about punishment or payment; it’s about discovering that we are enough, exactly as we are. It’s about celebrating the truth of our journey, not hiding from it.

Today was a reminder that every step, every struggle, every release, is part of building the life I’ve always deserved. I’m not waiting for permission or for some external validation. I’m choosing to live with a fullness that comes from within, and that’s what this picture represents—a moment of arrival, a step into the light.

If you’re curious about the journey and want to dig a little deeper, check out my latest blog post: Getting What You Deserve. It’s an exploration of the shadows we carry, the truths we uncover, and the moment we choose to step into our worth.

Wherever you are on your journey, I encourage you to pause, look around, and ask yourself: What do you deserve? Not for your mistakes or shortcomings, but for the inherent goodness and strength that’s been there all along.

Here’s to claiming what’s ours. Here’s to arrival.

- Scott 

Responses

Join the conversation
t("newsletters.loading")
Loading...
The Smallest Choices Hold the Greatest Love
My week started with two lessons that reverberated through my being. The first? The truth will always reveal itself when you're ready to see it. The second? Love is not in the grand gestures, it’s in the smallest, simplest choices. One week ago, I made a decision that wasn’t easy, but was clear. I left a space that wasn’t mine. A space where I could have stayed, could have played the part, coul...
A Year Ago Today: The Truth I Never Saw Coming
One year ago today, I was in Orlando, sitting in a hospital room with my father. The decision to go was instant. Something deep inside told me I needed to be there. It was only a couple of weeks after I learned I had beat cancer.Only a few days after I saw a future that was mine but looked nothing like my present.And just days before I remembered the truth about my life, starting with my childh...
Who are the Gods of War in your life?
Who are the Gods of War in your life? The ones who kept you small, kept you divided, kept you distracted. The ones who convinced you the fight was between you and the person next to you, when really, they were the ones pulling the strings the whole time. I met some of them this week. Not in some grand, dramatic way. But in the quiet realizations, the moments of clarity, the threads I finally pu...

Audacity: Your Catalyst for Bold Transformation

Dive into a world of courageous change and profound growth. Each edition of Audacity delivers powerful insights, compelling stories, and actionable tools designed to ignite your journey toward deeper purpose and authentic living. Embrace the audacity to transform and uncover the path to your true potential.
© 2025 Defy Tomorrow LLC. All Rights Reserved
Powered by Kajabi

Join Our Free Trial

Get started today before this once in a lifetime opportunity expires.